Melancons Celebrate 76 Years of Marriage

Norris “Ted” Melancon, Jr., 96, and his wife, Jane Witty Melancon, 93, have lived life abundantly with many cherished memories of family, faith, and friends. They continue making memories in their marriage as they celebrate their 76th wedding anniversary this year. They were recognized during a special Mass held by the Diocese of Baton Rouge at St. Jude the Apostle Church in Baton Rouge.

Bishop Michael G. Duca celebrated the Feb. 9 Mass, which recognized couples celebrating their 25th, 50th, 65th, and those over 65 years. They were the oldest registered couple with 76 years in 2025.

Jane's older brother, Kenneth Witty, was Ted's good friend. Ted visited the Witty home often. Being three years older than Jane, Ted didn’t notice her as a young girl. But as she grew older, Ted certainly noticed her more and they began dating.

“I knew Jane was the one not only because she was beautiful, but she was a good, faith-filled lady,” Ted said.

Jane said, “Ted was the one because he was kind, gentle, and respectful. I was in love.”

The couple, long-time parishioners of St. Ann Church in Morganza, married on July 4, 1949, in the St. Ann rectory. They currently live in New Roads, but remain parishioners of St. Ann.

“I always say I chose that date so I wouldn't forget our anniversary,” Ted jested.

At that time Jane was Baptist, and they could not marry in the Catholic Church.  Ted received all sacraments at St. Ann.  Jane promised to raise her children in the Catholic Faith upon marriage. She later became Catholic so she and Ted could worship together as one and she kept her vow, raising their children Catholic.

Among the Melancon’s most cherished memories are the birth of their four children. They also have 13 grandchildren and 21 great-grandchildren.

The second most memorable experience was their trip to Italy in 1995.  They visited the church where Ted’s mother was christened, and his grandparents married.

The Melancons understand that couples face obstacles they must overcome in living out the sacrament of marriage.

“Just getting along and becoming one, (is a challenge),” said Ted. He understands how difficult this can be sometimes. He and Jane face challenges by respecting each other’s opinions and praying, worshipping, and working together for a common goal.

The “secret” of the Melancon’s long marriage is their true love for each other, listening to each other and respecting each other’s opinions and feelings.

Jane and Ted have sage advice for newly married couples: Buy your needs not your wants.  Save your money.  This practice made it possible for them to retire at an age in which they could enjoy being together.  

“The honeymoon lasts a week, the ‘workmoon’ (working at your marriage) lasts a lifetime,” said Ted.